All advice is autobiographical. We know to take people’s advice with a grain of salt.
But there are other, more serious implications of advice being autobiographical.
In fiction, a foil is the person opposite the protagonist. The foil is there to show who the protagonist isn’t.
The foil dramatizes the main character’s traits.
In your friend’s mind, they are the protagonist. Not you. Just like in your own head, you’re the protagonist.
When friends make you the foil, they give you advice as “you in relation to them” versus “you as an individual.”
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